How to be Alone

Navigating Solitude: Amy Asher's Journey to Self-Discovery in 'How to be Alone'
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Lyrics

Day one I wake up

Waking up on the first day, feeling the weight of the situation.

With no weight lifted off of my shoulders

Not experiencing relief or resolution.

Like I need more closure

Seeking additional closure in the situation.

Like I'm telling myself we’re not over

Trying to convince oneself that the relationship isn't truly over.

Put on my makeup

Applying makeup as a metaphor for putting on a facade.

Cause I have never felt so naked

Feeling exposed and vulnerable.

And I can’t stop shaking

Experiencing intense emotions, unable to stop shaking.

Now it sinks in

Realizing the gravity of the situation.

I’m on my own

Acknowledging being alone.

And I’ve been told

Being advised that self-discovery happens in solitude.

That this is when

Recognizing the current phase as an opportunity for self-discovery.

I’ll find myself, but

Questioning the desire for self-discovery.

Do I even want to

Doubting the value of self-discovery if it means being without the other person.

If it means not being with you

Expressing the dilemma of choosing between self-discovery and being with the person.

How do I fall asleep when I can’t breathe

Struggling to sleep due to emotional distress.

Cause I got a lot of issues only you know about

Acknowledging personal issues known only to the other person.

How do I drive home and avoid that road

Navigating life to avoid reminders of the past relationship.

Cause if I’m not being careful I’ll end up at your house

Fearing unintentional visits to the other person's residence.

I’m relearning how to be alone again

Learning to be comfortable in solitude once again.

To be alone again, to be alone

Embracing the idea of being alone.

Soon enough I’ll get drunk

Anticipating using alcohol to cope with emotional pain.

Cause I know how I act when I’m hurting

Being aware of one's behavior during times of emotional distress.

I’m sure I’ll try to ignore it

Expecting to ignore the emotional pain.

Find some hands and romance to feel needed

Seeking temporary solace in physical affection.

And maybe six months from now

Projecting into the future, expecting emotional readiness in six months.

When you cross my mind I’ll be ready

Anticipating less burden when thinking about the other person.

The thought of you won’t be heavy

Imagining a time when thoughts of the person won't be emotionally heavy.

But for now

Living in the present, acknowledging the current emotional weight.

How do I fall asleep when I can’t breathe

Repeating the struggle of falling asleep due to emotional difficulty.

Cause I got a lot of issues only you know about

Reiterating the presence of personal issues known only to the other person.

How do I drive home and avoid that road

Revisiting the avoidance of roads linked to the past relationship.

Cause if I’m not being careful I’ll end up at your house

Fearing the unintended return to the other person's residence.

I’m relearning how to be alone again

Continuing the process of rediscovering how to be alone.

To be alone again

Embracing solitude once more.

I’m on my own and I’ve been told

Recalling being alone and the potential for self-discovery.

That this is when I’ll find myself

Acknowledging the ongoing journey of self-discovery.

But do I even want to

Questioning the desire for self-discovery once again.

Do I even want to

Reiterating the uncertainty about the value of self-discovery.

How do I fall asleep when I can’t breathe

Repeating the struggle of falling asleep due to emotional difficulty.

Cause I got a lot of issues only you know about

Reiterating the presence of personal issues known only to the other person.

How do I drive home and avoid that road

Revisiting the avoidance of roads linked to the past relationship.

Cause if I’m not being careful I’ll end up at your house

Fearing the unintended return to the other person's residence.

I’m relearning how to be alone again

Continuing the process of rediscovering how to be alone.

To be alone again, to be alone

Embracing solitude once more.

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